tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18205784.post115945700342024495..comments2023-10-29T05:06:55.349-06:00Comments on A Day in the Life of the Whittinghams: A Myriad of Conflicted FeelingsAlliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02233842319589466537noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18205784.post-1159743478844986742006-10-01T16:57:00.000-06:002006-10-01T16:57:00.000-06:00I think you're on track in your attempts to focus ...I think you're on track in your attempts to focus on happy things. And I think it's natural (particularly while pregnant) to become a bit selfish. Lately, I've been having a rough time due to lack of ME time. I feel guilty about it but at the same token, I know it's important to take good care of myself so I can be a good mom.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04135190793124857820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18205784.post-1159657477669365252006-09-30T17:04:00.000-06:002006-09-30T17:04:00.000-06:00I've read this carefully and I do not consider any...I've read this carefully and I do not consider any of the feelings you have described to be "selfish." You are dealing with so much in your pregnancy due to the fear you have from the past and every day you have to deal with physical painto get you through it. That's amazingly difficult. I wish you had a way to express your feelings in a way that would make you feel heard. Maybe it has to be through your blog, maybe the people you have close to you are more available to hear you than you realize. I know pregnancy can really toy with our feelings, but that doesn't mean they aren't real and that you should feel validated in expressing them.bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01471056466254620749noreply@blogger.com